Dating, and romantic relationship that you can rely on by Swati Prakash of http://www.askswati.com
So many of us suffer in relationships as planet earth has been infested by unconsciousness. These are some people I would stay away from. What about you?
1. Those looking for particular racial orientation or skin type. These are low vibration human beings.
2. Those looking only and only for particular features, e.g. big blue eyes, blonde, long hair, or stereotyped beliefs (e.g. man always being taller, older, richer, stronger). Again very low vibration level.
3. Any other kind of discrimination. E.g. ableist, speciesism, homophobia, genderism, gender stereotyping, classism, spiritual discrimination, as all these are signs of an undereducated and immature person.
4. Those who are hidden liars and cheats with irresponsible behavior.
5. Those who are Narcissistic. Please learn what it means and spot the red flags early on. There is so much to know about this subject. In a nutshell people who control you emotionally, make you feel they are superior or inferior, play mind games, guilt trip you, or give out hot and cold vibes systematically in order to give you an emotional roller coaster ride or trauma bond. They act abnormally and are dangerous. Sadly a lot of humans fit the bill.
6. A psychopath. These would be violent abusers, and those who feel nothing for their victims as they lack the moral or emotional capacity. One clear sign is if they refuse to go vegan after full explanation or documentary footage. Huge sign. I have heard of vegans wanting to be open to non vegan partners and it worries me as this is pure hypocrisy and speciesism. You are not a real vegan if you still love a non vegan who refuses to change for animals. If you wouldn’t date a known serial killer or a racist, then why a non vegan who is adamant and unable to change themselves?
7. Goes without saying that you must never date someone who doesn’t make you feel right, whom you have felt little or no mutual attraction with, no magnetic pull, no orgasms, no beautiful kisses. Could be that one of you are in it just for money or status, or out of sympathy or coercion, or because you were desperate, ageing, needed someone, etc.
8. If they don’t treat you well and lack generosity, e.g. sweet little gifts, love notes, roses, taking you out sometimes, and if all this is one sided, or only when they need you. It’s a sign of a small hearted and unromantic person.
9. Those who are in it only for sex. They lack the capability to love with the heart. All they see is an opportunity to use someone for satisfying their carnal instinct with no emotional depth. Sadly while growing up and in adulthood, I noticed many people were to fit this bill. Not my types.
10. Cheap behavior. Not highly cultured that turns you off, such as the tone of voice, shouting, uncivilized, not well mannered, aggressive, foul language, loose morals, lack of civic sense, and so on.
11. Those into lower quality cultural norms. E.g. a woman must do all the cooking and cleaning, or look after kids, not allowed to wear certain clothes, looking for parental permission, family income status, discriminatory religious beliefs, social taboos, etc.
12. Losing sleep, crying, asking about the future constantly, and worrying throughout the day about why someone behaved in a certain way, or whether they love you, can harm your mental and emotional health. This is a sign of distress and incoming trauma. Go for those who relax you and uplift your heart, with energy and a feeling of trust and faith. Try therapy and ask for healing.
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