Six Ways to Free Yourself from Domestic Abuse

In the human world one of the most common crimes is also one of the most underreported ones. Domestic Abuse. Primarily associated with partner crimes and violence against women and children, domestic abuse is common in almost every nation of the world as a gender liked crime, although sometimes men claim to be victims too.

Most of the times cultural norms and family expectations force people to be mute witnesses and victims, having little or no way to escape once in a domestically abusive family situation. So how does one free oneself from the dramas:

  1. Being Aware: In schools and colleges we learn a lot of things but not always those things that matter. We are infact abused and controlled throughout our schoolage by parents, teachers and relatives and for most of our lives we remain unaware of the fact that we have been abused. For example control and coercion is not always recognised as abuse although it is fairly common. We are taught about academic subjects that help us join the workforce and contribute to the economy and not necessarily those things that help us evolve into better humans, such as self respect, respect to others, consensual sex, sexual and reproductive freedom, human rights and child rights. We all need to complete basic education and courses such as The Freedom Program. Learn about all aspects of domestic abuse, its signs and symptoms such as economic abuse, financial control, dowry, forced marriage, mental harassment, sexual control and coercion, physical violence, emotional abuse, blackmailing, threatening, turning children against you, revenge through cross allegations made once you report crimes, blaming, denial and minimising abuse, lack of empathy and physical or mental control.
  2. Learn about Laws: Laws concerning gender, crimes, domestic abuse and marital rape differ from nation to nation. In some countries such as India marital rape is still not illegal. On some countries such as those in middle east, women are punished for simply refusing to cover up their body or face or flogged. Hence the laws themselves abuse women and control them in ghastly ways. Depending on the country you live in you can decide to educate yourself of the laws and if they are regressive you can find ways to leave the country through higher education and start new chapter or find support in gaining some independence. Activism and joining movements to liberate other victims like you can help create social change. Human laws are impermanent and can be altered to evolve with times. Writing to government agencies and ministries and signing petitions can also help in initiating change through advocacy.
  3. Be Independent: Financially and emotionally women and taught to have a man in their life and get married in many cultures. These are the same cultures that value childbirth and use women for reproduction and as sexual slaves or domestic workers within marriage. Household chores, childminding and sex are the roles attributed to women in these societies where marriage is highly respectable and being a mother is seen as the highest role for a woman, especially producing a male child. It is time to shun such conventions. If marital rape and domestic abuse are norms in your country then it is advisable not to get married in such a culture or with a man from this kind of an upbringing and to focus on career or personal and sexual freedom. Women more often than men are not always interested in sexual subjugation and physical relationships, and value deeply emotional connections instead of sexual ones. In human world, unlike rest of nature women have considerable bleeding in periods and PMS although other species have very little or no bleeding. We are also forced to mate more often than needed as per our once a month ovulation cycles would normally permit and to continue being sexually active even after menopause. This is because of the ‘matrix’ brainwashing women through media to be sexual beings in service of men who control them making them feel stressed, feel less in power of their inner self and disconnected from nature.
  4. Spirituality: It might seem off the topic but having an interest in spiritual rather than physical, material and sexual aspects of life can be very liberating from a karmic perspective. Being engrossed in relationship entanglements, family dramas, property battles and children will not allow us to meditate and develop our ascended powers. New age, occult and tantric ideologies sometimes confuse us to follow a ‘balanced’ path of material, spiritual, sexual and sensual enjoyment as a part of new age spirituality. This is simply another trap in the matrix that wants to control us and keep us entangled in daily life maya. The path of ascetic spirituality is a celibate path and not one of sensual temptation that is simply the matrix controlling us and creating illusions in the hologram through five senses. Once we are domesticated it becomes very difficult to seek liberation from the matrix as we are continually forced to earn money, follow conventional lifestyles and live for our children who are forced to grow up in the same system of the matrix as we did instead of learing off the grid, spiritual and eco-conscious ways of life.
  5. Visualise and Manifest: Your mind creates your own illusion of life and by thinking and visualising a certain situation you put energy and intention into it. However you also need to clear and cleanse the negative programs in the background, in your chakras and in your inner energy field where your memories, emotions and karmic baggage is stored. Very important is to get rid of the false ideologies that keep you engrossed in victimhood, ideas about ‘being compassionate towards abusers’, ‘accepting people and continue being with them’, ‘making peace with your circumstances and accepting the way things are as unchangeable’, ‘trying to meditate and stay calm if someone is abusing you’, ‘being vulnerable’, ‘allowing people to be themselves around you and do as they will even if they harm you or others’, ‘showing your other cheek’, ‘forgive and forget’, ‘unconditional love of others and not yourself’, ‘giving not receiving’, ‘visualising that others have changed instead of visualising a change in your situation’ and so on. These false beliefs do not serve us.
  6. Establish evidence: Domestic abuse agencies, police, social workers, media articles as well as training programs will always encourage you to report crimes and ‘come out with it’. This is sadly not something that always results in your being supported as a ‘victim’ once you report the crimes. The police and courts will want evidence of crimes and this is not just your reports or that of your children who are witness or victims. The law demands third party witnesses who have directly seen crimes and recorded evidence in most cases that are very difficult to obtain because they happen behind closed doors. If you just run away after reporting domestic abuse or rape, you are liable to suffer the hardships of legal battles over child custody and property later on unless you reach an out of court settlement with the abuser which is impossible if they are of unreasonable behavior and selfish as may be their family members. Hence in many cases you need to collect photographs of injuries or use spy cameras wherever possible and also talk to neighbours, medical professionals and family friends so that they can report incidents overheard or seen by them promptly as soon as they take place else the same will not be accepted if delayed by a long period of time. If there is no evidence the only way to be free yourself is to remove yourself from the unhealthy relationship where you can never be found again by the culprit and change your identity which is not always possible if you are a public person or have an established business or career and not enough support in moving away. Even if you do go to a refuge or take support of relatives, you still risk the prospect of stalking and harassment once abusers try to find your whereabouts using law, especially if you have a child they have parental responsibility of.

Here are some modern technologies that can assist you in evidencing this heinous crime and being free from a legal and long term perspective which can help limitedly based on the laws of your land.

Top Ten Tips on Leaving the Matrix

1) We do not need toothpastes and toothbrushes – we can use licorice sticks, cinnamon sticks, neem sticks to clean teeth.

2) We do not need a single shampoo, soap, or detergent product, just sopanuts are all purpose cleansers.

3) We do not need a single piece of furniture. We do not need wooden tables, chairs, cupboards, because we can sit on floors, sleep on ground and sit cross legged. It is the unhealthy western lifestyle and diet that makes people obese and unable to sit without chairs and sleep without beds.

4) We do not need so many fashion items, clothes, accessories, jewellery – we need just a few clothes, handmade, second hand, natural fabrics are best. Bye bye washing machines because less is more.

5) We do not need to ruin our skin and hair with cosmetics and chemicals. My skin had and hair were ruined when I was shooting for The Chair episodes because of makeup and hairstyling.

6) We do not need printed books, papers and pens. We need digital technology products to be made eco friendly and without animal products.

7) Obviously we have no need for television, video games, cinemas, tablets, other stuff that is purely unrequired and causes headaches. With focus on meditation and telepathic powers we have no ned for outside info-tainment.

8) We do not need burgers, chips, sausages, tikkas, kebabs, pizzas, cakes, tea, coffee, alcholol, smokes, drugs. We need only simple fruits and fruit like vegetables. Have you ever seen an ape having a problem with bananas and tomatoes? Ergo, we do not need cooking range, ovens, microwaves and fridges. We do not need to kill animals or take their breastmilk or ovulation/ periods for our nutritional requirements. Trust me we are just apes gone mad, ruining our planet to extinction. It is a crime.

No government is going to tell you this. They only want you to keep buying, keep selling, things you do not need because we have built a stupid system that is designed for profit by exploiting the planet and getting us so busy earning money we have no time for meditation.

They have designed a system built on artifical human laws, machines that run this system with zero intuition.

They want us to get married, have children and keep adding to the army of slaves that serve them. If we all meditate and stop thinking of sex and relationships, we will be ready to ascend by focusing on who we are and finding the way out of the matrix. Our schools and colleges end up teaching children the same things taught before to keep us enslaved in job and profit system.

But those who are slaves of maya, the matrix will never let you know that. They will tell you there is no way out. That we just have to bow down and accept everything, and be ‘normal’. But are we normal? Look and humans and look at nature. There is nothing ‘normal’ about us. More importantly if nature is also an illusion created by the AI matrix program with fibonacci series encoding, we need to find our way out of it, and fast.

Our Un-Real E-state

Why are we not able to grow our food?

One simple answer – land shortage..
But is there really a land shortage? Or is this a lie?

Why in UK are there so many large parks, gardens and farms with nothing but empty space and grass, decorative trees and decorative flowers? In some other countries we have people living on streets with tall buildings around them lying empty.

All that land can be used to plant countless fruit bearing trees and plants, vegetables that people can eat while living on the same land in eco friendly little homes?

Why don’t they do that?

Because they want to have shops for us to purchase food from, and if we had free food there will be no need to go shopping.

If we had free land the rich will not own real estate and profit from mortgage and rent.

The government is not here for the people, it is here to protect bilionares and businesses that are based on profits.

Did you know that most of the land on earth is usurped by the elite who control animals and breed them to death for supplying meat and dairy – why do you need animal meat and dairy? Most of the biggest czars in the world own very large cattle ranches and farms, besides hunting grounds , fossil fuel, mining and other estate. It is all about exploiting earth and usurping everything you want at your will just because you claimed ownership. Nature has not given us the right to do that, we have simply done it thousands of yers ago through our aggressive mentality due to our human ego and ‘can do anything’ attitude. The biggest of our problem being misuse of our planet for animal ‘agriculture’.

Instead of real plants we have industrial plants, primarily meat and dairy factories. This is not normal.

You can simply get plant milk at home and you don’t even need milk, you are not a breastfeeding infant. No other animal feeds on other mammals milk after the initial infancy phase of life. Why are humans so brainwashed since childhood to demand for milk? Need milk for desserts and recipes – blend soaked nuts or beans at home.

Why do you need animal meat? You can make everything you want with plant meat? Infact raw vegetables and fruits was always the actual diet designed for humans.

It is NOT natural to crave for burgers, sausages, cakes…because the way humans were designed in nature originally was to pick fruits and eat fruit like vegetables with their hands as they are what nature provides us. Why do we really want to cook and spoil them at all?.

Did you know we do not actually have a human poulaton problem? We are only less than 8 billion humans but appx. 80 billion land animals are killed each year.and more and more bred again…it is mind boggling….and this is for food alone.

So much land wasted, uselessly to kill animals and then breed them again, when it can be freed up to grow trees, fruits and vegetables, returned to nature.

Why should not each and every one of us have our own home and garden to live and grow food in, free land and free vegetable patch to sleep, eat and live in?

Why do we have to pay rent or buy land at all?

There is more than enough land for all humans on earth and for all wild animals to coexist. We do not have a population problem. We have a political problem linked deeply with an artificially simulated food system.

In ancient history humans have started hunting, become territorial, killed each other to grab land so that they can enslave animals on it and consume animals. This has continued to date through wars and through British empire spreading all over and colonising the planet. This is plain and simple history, a story taught to us since childhood.

These reptilian monarchs who are owners of most of the land on earth, may resemble but are not human at all. They are demons, programs in the Matrix, this AI controlled simulation where we are trapped in a financial reality – one based on income, profits, trading, spending, buying.

This is not natural but artificial reality. While we think we are on earth we are actually in a simulation, a mental program where thoughts become things and one we are unable to escape because of our dependence on the system, because we need housing, shelter, food and need to work our ass off to earn the money to pay our bills. This is a dreamworld where we are all prisoners.

While we believe we have a body on earth and are alive here, we are actually in our simulated body with fragmentation to appear as many individuals, just like in a dream where there are many people and many things happen but it is only our MIND.

For all we know we are in a pod somewhere, our real body being this one person, plugged into the matrix computer system, trapped in this AI controlled true-man show where mind generated computer images in multi-sensory format are playing out as our life, all in fractal coding. Crystals, plants, waterbodies, clouds, planets, galaxies, blackholes…all being a simulation of mathematical code – of fractals holographically generated. But we on so called earth are engangled in our personal relatonships, and worried about survival due to a financial system that is controlled by reptilian programs that seem to rule the world. Thus we are unable to think beyond our basic necessities, food, sleep, housing and when we do accomplish the basics we get entangled into law of attraction based prosperity, relationships and sensory goals.

The matrix has taught us that we need to focus on having a stable, comfortable and happy life in this matrix., when it is not even air that we are breathing, or food that we are eating. It is all pure fractals and holograms and we are not awakening in any kind of real world until we realize this.

But we are afraid, very very afraid, to break the rules of the physical world because of social and family rules, because we are looking after children and households, because we are all in very deep simulation based on our fear of letting go.

This is our only problem.

Post Pandemic: Lessons from Covid-19

With Covid-19 and relaxing of lockdowns, we all have simply adjusted to the ‘new normal’ as cities plan to crawl back to life and public begins to move again. Everyone wants to wash hands and wear masks, but is this all we have learnt? What about the root cause of the epidemics and infections, how can we get rid of this problem from the root and clean up our planet for good? Why are we letting the authorities and media sweep the truth under the rug and exploit it merely to sell more masks, drugs and vaccines to us?

Here are the top six sources of infections we need to learn and educate others about, so please feel free to copy and share this post widely:

1. Droplets: Droplets from humans are a major source of infection, masks are necessary. simply because all the germs from animal farms and animal foods have been absorbed into humans and most people are infected already. These germs started spreading widely over 11000 years ago with advent of animal farming (besides garbage), and have mutated to the extent we don’t even realize that now they are no longer linked with animals and spread from human to humans. Each time we talk to someone or are next to someone there can be a droplet infection, for example on our dinner tables, in cafes, in parks or home and masks help only to a limited extent. But droplets are not the only source. It is also our water, air, soil …and our diet that is heavily infected. Sure we get immune to infections with time, but that is not right, we should be doing someting to clean our society up and not just absorb all the negativity continually as the ‘normal’ and ‘new normal’.

2. Diet: Not living with someone who consumes dairy and animal products = huge improvements in health. Less sneezing, coughing, fevers, infections..those who praactice know how it feels. Reduced interaction with neighbours or friends who consume animal products is similarly beneficial as some of us personally have witnessed during lockdown. However even in vegan households, children still bring in the germs once in a while as they attend school, play outside or if neighbors who are infected come over, as most people around are still consuming dairy and killed animals. Even the smell of dairy and animal meats is repulsive and rotten – they attract flies and they spoil very fast. No-one should be consuming them, but we have lost our senses and intuition. Our obviously harmful consumer products are not only dairy and meats, but also other food items – candies, colas, animal gelatin sweets made of dead cows and pig bones, insect poop shellac, and pet food.

3. Pet food: ‘Animal lovers’ we call ourselves. but imagine feeding our pets and stray animals with all that processed garbage – slaughterhouse waste, and thinking we are helping animals. Even walking in the pet food aisle, dairy or meat aisle in a supermarket is a health hazard, not to menton offensive to moral sensibilities. But we do not speak about it and remain polite. We use animals for food and for our enjoyment by separating them from their parent and taking them home as pets, breeding them and buying them, and in turn we feed them animal products too causing even more suffering and health problems

3. Water: Did you know all our waters, rivers, seas, everywhere are full of animal poo and blood as well as toxic waste from slaughterhouses, covered up and laced with chemicals to change its appearance and smell. We dump all kinds of waste in water and take away life. It is unimagninably cruel yet we call fishing a sport teaching children to hook and choke animals and watch them suffocate in pain. Close to 80 billion land animals are waiting in slaughter lines each year – this is a lot more than current human population? And all that poo and blood goes into the water. Not only is it morally wrong and mentally disturbing, it is also hidden from public sight. And what about our fish and sea creatures? Killed, bred, fished and slaughtered for food are trillions of sea animals every year, and yet we only hear about plastic killing our sea life.

4. Air: Is it really air we are breathing, or is it the nitrogen and germs from animal farms? Even if you go near a small shop where chicken, meat or dead fish are sold, you get a very horrible smell – the air is unbreathable. Even if you have a small pet you know the s uniquemell, of a feathered bird or furry friend. You know te smell of urine and feces. Imagine 80 billion of these animals are in farms right now…waiting to be killed any moment. We do not see them..so we do not care? There are so many coronaviruses, not just SARS, MERS, but even our common cold and flus all floating about continually, all over the planet – and our air is no longer fit to breathe.

5. Soil: Animal poo manure, blood and bones from animal farms is mixed with soil and it is toxic, full of hazardous germs from infected, very ill, suffering animals, along with their hormones and antibiotics too. We worry about the chemicals from pesticides and fertilizers and GMOs – and we have no idea of how dangerous animal manure is to us. Human feces and animal feces, all have countless germs. All our fruits and vegetables even if organic are not safe to consume althoutgh vegan – because they are not veganic. All the urine and poo as well as eggshells, blood and bones of animals have gone into it. In veganic farming we would use plant nutrients only to feed soil to grow vegetables and fruit – but it is rarely practiced. Instead we have e-coli, salmonella, ebola, rotaviruses…coming into our homes.

6. Soap and Gels: We need to wash our hands but please do not use animal products to do so. Our soaps, shampoos, medicines, santitizer gels, handwashes – all are filled with very disgusting animal slaughter waste. All the unwanted body parts that noone can buy as food, are sold to us by the trillions each month, because the animal industry does not want to waste those body parts, internal organs and blood – they use them in medicine, cosmetics, household cleaners, sprays and personal care items. Is it possible to get healthier and cleaner by using dead animals toxic waste? Yet, we are so foolish we will buy anything sold to us cheap in plastic bottles That is why they need all those chemicals and disinfectants – poisons to neutralize the stinking substances and dead meat in our day to day soaps, gels and medicines.

Killing even one being who can feel pain is murder, no matter how nicely it is done. rape of even one female or of a male is rape, whether they be human or pig, chicken, cows, bulls, stags, dog, cats or any other creature bred in animal industries. Yet people argue with those who protest and even when our planet is choking to death, riddled with disease and climate change, we do not care. But more importantly there is murder and rape happening right now not only of humans but in dairy and animal industries, to an extent we cannot imagine, to other innocent creatures who feel everything like we do, and all for our consumption of food and products we do not actually need. Why are we not unifying against this and speaking up on a daily basis until the while world hears our plea?

We should not have to educate people about the germs caused due to this. When a human is killed we do not talk about how many germs are caused, we talk about the morality of the act. But in case of animals of other species, even if it causes death and disease to humans, we do not care…we argue about our rights to consume, we argue about humane killing and more ‘compassionate’ farming, we argue about how to make animal agriculture ‘sustainable’ and ‘local’, or about its economic value as an industry, or about jobs lost if it ends, or about consumer demand. This is not right. Murder is murder, rape is rape, abuse is abuse You just don’t do it and don’t let it happen to anyone. You speak up!

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